21.11.05

standing in line to see the show tonight and theres a light on


there are a number of you Pbloggers out there that are new to the whole
"net" blog scene here. So welcome.

YES,

Pblog= Welcomes "You"

Pblog embraces your every twitch,
and the very curl of your toe,
the very flick of your wrist (that aches as much as mine)

Are your bones brittle? (again)

"Snap"

Look!
There they go, oops.
Just like the wishbone we snapped tonight.



Remain, close to me.


So,
"welcome"

17.11.05

Bette and Meg


those with taste
carry a little scotch in their hand!

and then Lola said: this feels just right!


Lola quickly grew tired of David and I trying to book our xmas flights to Edmonton tonight,
so here she is fast asleep with her bear of the very same size.
She isn't coming home with us so we also have to find her a good doggie spa...
and trust me there are WAY too many of them online to choose from...
So if anyone knows of any good poshy dog spas located in the GTA, send us a line!

nighty night folks....and see you soon E-towners!

ABIAN AJEN

THIS IS JUST PLAIN COOL..
again from my friend Elaine in Taipei...
isnt it amazing how you can find friends across the world with the same cute taste!?

http://love.iparty.org.tw/ani.asp?lang=eng&anino=02

14.11.05

meromero park

hey pbloggers,
check out this site:
http://meropar.jp/
(of course it is from my friend Elaine in Taipei)
so she gave me my new pet as a gift and his name is MYLO.

He is a strange powder white virtual pet from:
Meromero Park
go sign up for your own and you can even join in the fun with the two of us right now!

well, that is....if you can read japanese...


Now I am supposed to write blogs so that it will equal food for this virtual pet or he will get hungry..oh ohhhh.



so I guess you will be seeing/reading more from me here.

7.11.05

happy halloween....again


martha is my hero

5.11.05

the cats maui


Ok ok,
don't stare at me too too long...
So what if I was stuffed into this shirt by my mom
and I feel like a siamese sausage!
Yes please...feel free to have a laugh with me here, but don't laugh too loud...the other pets will be jealous!
Well ok, I do look divine in a pink hearted screen print don't I?

Sigh...where is my mom?
I want this shirt off...NOW!
I am all paws!

31.10.05

baking with martha



and
what
the
F**k
WOULD
martha do?

you can find it all here baby



HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYBODY!!!

18.10.05

a bottle of scotch beside the fireplace

Ok I am coming down with a mid-autumn cold!
Today a stuffy nose and a sore throat!
Tomorrow a handful of tissue...a pocket full of lemony throat drops.
At least at work the tissue boxes are free...which is a treat, but it is 1-ply.
At least the Orange juice is free!


great.
A cold.

So here I am back at home after a neverending day at work.
I should boast here loud and clear:
that I am now going to be a "full-time" member of the H family...
"Look mom, no contract!"
Now it is up to fate? to decide if I will stay on or not...
I haven't given my final choice.

Lets see where WE (David, Maui, Guinness, Lola) can find a place to live first once our lease ends December 1st.

Anyway off to bed early tonight.
I am going to drive David to the GO Train tomorrow!
We have to go early to try to get him on=
TRAIN 48. As if.
That way I can steal the car and take Lola to the office!

Anyway...
I thought I should try to post this photo and see if it works!
impressive folks here you have it= BLOGGER.com
has finally improved its photo posting!
So here is my cure for long BuzzNet headaches.....
well, goodnight and happy blogging....

ps, enjoy the image of Lola's sire and bitch!
xoxoxoxo

Shopping compassionately couldn't be easier

http://www.peta.org/living/altorders.asp

"Man's best friend" killed for fur?

http://www.jcruel.com/catdogfur.asp?int=weekly_enews

Please contact J.Crew, explaining that you'll be boycotting the chain—and asking all your friends and family to do the same—until it pledges to stop supporting cruelty to animals and adopts a permanent fur-free policy:

Millard S. Drexler, Chair & CEO
J.Crew Group, Inc.
770 BroadwayNew York, NY
10003
1-800-562-0258
contactus@jcrew.com

style, either you have it or you don't girlfriend!

a great read I found:

Jackie O. did it. Ingrid Bergman did it and Katharine Hepburn probably did it best of all. Chic is all about what is diplomatically discarded but how hard it is to leave behind the looks we love.
Somewhere between 18 and 29 we master the hemline that suits, the eyeliner that flatters and the hairstyle that takes three minutes to fix, then we get comfortable. And dated.

Decade-leaping takes courage and the will to experiment.
Let Paloma Picasso wear the same red lipstick for 30 years; you have other tricks up your sleeve. After you give up a Jennifer Aniston 'flip-do' you can do anything.

'70s WomanDitch:
Henna for the hair. It looks best on teenage Goth girls.Switch: To natural silver, blond highlights or lush auburn. Invest in a colorist.
Ditch: Your college jeans, it's time to hand them down.Switch: To flattering suit pants, stretch cords or velvet capris.
Ditch: Cocoa-colored lipliner with nude gloss, spindly mascara-heavy lashes, heavy tanning.
Switch: Fattening and flattering cherry and berry tones, good powder bronzer, one coat of clear lash mascara.
Ditch: Really huge, really uncomfortable tote bag.
Switch: A pretty city tote that carries the bare basics. You are no longer sleeping in the rain at Woodstock.
Keep: Cowboy boots, carpenter husband, Moroccan djellaba, surfboard, Stones albums, silver and turquoise bracelets, integrity, oatmeal cookie recipes, '40s dresses/Ossie Clark/Zandra Rhodes and Jean Muir.

'80s WomanDitch:
Big hair, hot rollers, hair spray, short 'perky' fringe, curly Melanie Griffith bangs, and shaggy Valerie Bertinelli bangs.
Switch: A soft layered un-do (Meg Ryan/Cate Blanchett-esque), a chignon, or, if addicted to bangs, a blunt bob like Audrey Tatou's in Amelie.
Ditch: Fluffy, embroidered sweaters, leather micro-mini, ankle boots, lace stockings, multiple bracelets (or keep just one and wear it as ironic 'post' statement).
Switch: Your first no-shoulder-pads suit. White for black. An evening dress without any spangles, velvet bits or pie-crust collar.
Ditch: Fur, distressed leather, long 'Edwardian' overcoat for work.
Switch: Cashmere layers. Short Tocca coat. Leather gloves and calf boots only.
Keep: Investment savvy, first Prada backpack, DKNY black bodysuit, gym addiction, Bruce Springsteen albums, cowboy hat, La Perla account, red lipstick, gold bracelet (just one), real diamond earrings, denim jacket(non-embroidered), Walter Steiger, Maud Frizon, Sonia Rykiel, heels, gold hoop earrings. Black Joan Jett-esque eyeliner.

'90s WomanDitch:
Stuff that reminds you of Friends: the Rachel 'do, too many blonde highlights or Phoebe's "jogging style" double-knot pony tail. Extreme push-up bras, jeans with everything, zip-front leather jacket.
Switch: Braids or soft natural curls instead of the scrunchie. A vintage Azzedine Alaia-style leather jacket, a bra that doesn't look hard-wired, mis-matched stripes and dots, a man's silk tie and waist coat.
Ditch: Skinny, skinny eyebrows circa 1991.
Switch: Substantial but sculpted brows, somewhere between Ava Gardner and Brooke Shields in Pretty Baby circa '78.
Ditch: Roll-neck cashmere sweater, JP Tods loafers, skinny pants (Elle Macpherson, supermodel).
Switch: Pleated Hermes scarf, boat-necked cashmere sweater, tuxedo pants, gold tap dancing shoes (Charlotte Gainsbourg, super-rebel)
Ditch: Logo mania, handbag/sunglasses/perfume/magazine addiction, shopping mania, obsession with celebrities' cellulite levels. And, say it loud, banish G-string thongs now!
Switch: To real novels instead of McFiction, French underwear, your own seamstress.
Keep: Yoga classes, natural skin-care, vintage savvy, one logo item (framed), honey-colored fishnets, Manolos (for bridesmaids at your wedding), hats, Laura Mercier make-up brushes,fig-scented candles, handbags (for granddaughters), one G-string (for birthdays and Christmas).

15.10.05

MY NEW CAR


MY NEW CAR
Posted by: pattichiles.
ok folks,
add it up:
1 hott car plus 1 hott chick= global warming

THANKSGIVING SWEATER


woof=
my name is Lola and I am a Scottie Dog

woooof=
my new Thanksgiving sweater that my new family got me is kinda silly

wooof=
my hair is becoming silky and long due to my new healthy diet, and mom's constant care! say: do you like my little scottie beard?

woof woof=
Can we go for a walk around town to show me off and then play some football in the park?

woof woof=
I would rather just snuggle and have some treats instead

little angel


This was taken just before Olivia went home, she had to keep fashionably warm in her little knit chapeau...xoxox

The Crowe's


Here is a Thanksgiving photo of David's younger brother Andy, his wife Heather and baby Olivia!
It was great to see them over the holidays in Ottawa and it was super duper great to catch up with that little angel!!!

Guinness in Toronto


Guinness has a wonderful life that he shares with us here in Toronto.
Chock full of chasing plastic mice and taunting his new gal pal Lola.
One of his favorite places to lounge is the giant front window of our house.
He is here now and approves of this photo being posted.
It is in his full likeness.
He also loves piano and the likings of Matt Good. Yet he has not heard David play as of yet...due to the fact that we are without a piano!
But in the near future I will get one. Try sneaking that one home under your coat!


27.9.05

the analysis of luminous phenomena

She ate the last cupcake covered with halo pink sugar cream.
She extended her gloved hand to wipe her cupidbow smile.
She marched to the closet to retrieve her genuine patent leather shoes.
She crossed the laces and tied giant butterfly bows of black silk.
She waited anxiously for her Tiffany blue box.
She sat with the sun pouring down on her and the family Aberdeen.
Pastel wooden stairs are not the most comfortable place to rest when you are anxious for a gift like this!

law of simultaneous contrast

"I have blazed the trail; others will follow" Cezanne said.
It's rare to find painters like the neo-impressionists, who have such a clear idea of what they want; rarely have artists felt so strongly the urge to put their ideas on-paper...or like bloggers on-line?
There were to be no vague perceptions recorded approximately with "random brush strokes", Signac said to sum up. She used to try to blur her eyes in hope that she could catch the sun at the right angle on her plasma monitor...but it was of no use.
Random keystrokes were what overcame that usual 9-to-5 afternoon.
She was working on a spreadsheet.
This was not a canvas. This was not the theatre.
And she was not her mother yawning as she ironed...cursing the wrinkles out from her bedsheets.

The housework had degenerated her and led to vice. However I must point that out.

Neither the tree of knowledge nor the serpent exist in her world.
Something of paradise remains about her, even when she types, even when she puts on her finely stitched satin black dress, or when she has painted her finest art.

All the same, the fevers of passion. They are before us in the state of innocence of a quiet animal life.

www.peppermintlab.com


Team Fabulous!


kelsie


kelsie
Posted by: pattichiles.
My little sister

21.9.05

peppermintLAB


4.9.05

david and lola


The Crowe's Nest
August 2005

my doggie


my doggie
Posted by: pattichiles.
LOLA and I and the Crowe's nest! August 2005

Lola


Lola
Posted by: pattichiles.

1.9.05

pt. 1, rubber duck

She thought of how dirty things had become.

She cleaned the metallic sink until the beige powder erased her blood red nailpolish on her tired hand. The bleach probably wasn't good for her red blood either.

But who needs to wear a happy rubber-duck-yellow glove for protection when you lose all of your care-for-the-world anyway?

She cursed and was angry at the lack of shine her kitchen sink had.
It mocked her obsession with cleanliness.
So she took to scrubbing it after a long day at the office.

She thought of how dirty things had become.

24.8.05

Her name was Lola


Our new Scottie dog!

4.8.05

OSU! to the ninja's in NinjaLand


This artwork was created by Malay Sengvilay. My nearest and dearest Sempai. She is moving to Toronto to go to Ryerson University as she is a Film-Goddess-in-the-making.
I wish her well as she is leaving the evil world of Fashion!!!
I cant wait for her to find happiness!
You know, I thought about my career, and it has been almost 8 long years for me. I don't know if this is my true happiness anymore, does that make me a fashionista currently searching for more passion? or the right Muse perhaps?
I told David last night that in your twenties it was all about yourself. Now as I am carefully nearing my thirties (two years left mind you) I feel that I should be doing more with my life. Such as working with animals, giving out more toys in Cuba...etc. So are your 30's the years of great care for others on this Earth?
Hmm, must be my internal clock. We all want change to our lives. Ah, but that is how everyone I know feels. No one is ever happy. Are you? Malay will move here and be my Sempai-in-crime friend.
Not that we will be creating havoc or such.
But it WOULD be a crime of sorts for us to both in fact try out another Martial Art for the sake of sticking to the karate moto: that "karate-is-for-life", which we totally agree with at this level.
Karate is a religion/cult of sorts, and we say "OSU!" alot.
Besides, her Toronto dojo is quite far, so she wont be able to continue. We can at least go to Karate together and maybe start all over again as white belts this Fall, possibly in Shotokan (utter shock to my internal Kyokushin system)
Brown belt status Aka: SEMPAI status, is hard enough to achieve, but worth ALL of the effort. It is +43 today in Toronto, and really, it is just too hot to train. So I sincerly regret taking summers off, but it is for health reasons, I faint easily!! So my summer consists of sweating-it-out via the pool! vs. full-contact sparring.
See you soon Malay, I am proud of your big move in life! OSU!

29.7.05

Uncle Norman's farm!


Here I am with my big brother Mike looking as proud as ever because we just milked some cows in Red Deer at my great uncle's farm! circa:1980

27.7.05

The rest of the cake...


Sorry Guinness...you were just SO tasty...!

We love you Patti xoxoxox


Birthday Girl


HAPPY 28TH PATTI!!!!


David & Patti July 26th 2005


HAPPY BIRTHDAY PATTI!!!


Yes that is a photo of Guinness my cat dressed up as a lawyer wearing David's tab collar....lovely suprise at work!

And Megan made cupcakes too!

19.7.05

need a haircut?


I saw this late one night in Chinatown...so I shot it

HAPPY 50TH BIRTHDAY MOM!


WE LOVE YOU!

cuban postcard


Hola! click on this picture and go see my wonderful photoblog of Cuban photo's...more and more to come...seriously.

Ernesto my seasick hero


Ok, so what if I got a little bit too much rum in my blood before I set out on my wild deep sea Cuban adventure.
This island reminded me of Gilligan's Island.
Yes, really. It was small and quite obscure, and had the odd fat man named Skipper.

No really. It had an old Cuban man in a wet suit, but you get the idea.
Ok so I called it Patti's Island, why not.

Yes, why not?

Ok, it's a great idea. I bet that I could have purchased this place for around 200 bucks, or what have you. And, I AM named Patti in case you didn't understand.

Alright alright, this was in fact Media Luna Island. Sorry to excite you about my purchasing power with my mad Cuban de niro.

Ok, so you could have even called me Ginger on any given day, you know I could have dressed up...for you.
Yes, myself suited up: wig-and-all, and head-to-toe sequins.
I could shake my buxom booty as well, as I know you like the gingered honey.

And YES the silvery glitzy kind.

So I got out to sea and heck, even the mermaid's were jealoius of my Canadian curves...yes "plenty of curves ahead" they said.

But then Dave told them "PIPE DOWN SEA-MONKEY-BITCHES"
he WAS wearing a snorkel at the time so I wasn't sure how they could clearly understand his human babble, anyhow his urgency scared them off.

And off we continued along the coast of Media Luna...that of which is a tiny tiny remote island off the coast of Cayo Guillermo, but no where near the city of Moron. (had to throw that name in here somewhere)

Besides the 1920's crashed ship (see more addt'l photoblog pics) we saw some gorgeously colored fish and also walked on some old wreckage of the old ship. I thought I walked across a huge old gas tank and at any minute it would blow up, just like on Gilligan's Island, where they always seemed to come across old mine's etc underwater and then life would be then shot in rapid-fast-forward motion/film and we would all swim hurriedly back to the shore.

Or who knows, to ruin the above fun, in reality we would have been blown to bikini-bits and then devoured by nearby hungry sharks with cold grey eyes.


Then we went back to Patti's Island and had lunch with Ernesto!

Ok, so WHAT if it was just a portrait of Hemmingway.
It WAS personally signed.

His ghost was there.
Beside me.
And the beer cooler. (see addt'l photoblog shots for it)

Apparently as the Cuban's told me in broken Spanglish: he used to hang out there and was inspired to write THE OLD MAN AND THE SEA. that of which we both re-read...
how perfect with the salty air....and salty fishy cuisine...

"FISH!"

The lobster lunch on the island was fantastic, oh and watch out for the coral its sharp! Also watch out for Ernesto...

7.7.05

London 7-7

United Kingdom: Amnesty International condemns bomb attacks in London
7-7, 2005
Amnesty International condemns in the strongest possible terms the multiple bombings that have killed and injured many people in London today.
Deliberately attacking civilians can never be justified.
Targeting people going about their daily business shows complete contempt for the most fundamental principles of humanity. To the extent that these bombings are part of a widespread attack on the civilian population of the United Kingdom in furtherance of an organization's policy, they would constitute a crime against humanity.

Thank you Stephanie and Ben for letting us know that you are safe! xox

Palm


Palm
Posted by: pattichiles.
a sign of remembrance...to the Cubans

3.7.05

poolside bar


This is the place that serves the best HAM & CHEESE sandwiches in all of Cuba, well ok on the resort anyway! Also, they have pizza available at all hours! The side view is of the main pool..which was inhabited by many UK brits and their topless bits! Lucky Dave!

Patti & David in Cuba


We had a wonderful vacation, it was truly amazing!

ON VACATION...



CAYO COCO, CUBA
THIS IS WHERE WE WILL BE ALL WEEK!
DO NOT DISTURB!

23.6.05

kelly & kennedy


As David and I are going to be at the airport this Saturday..

***AS WE ARE GOING TO CUBA FOR A WEEK***

Here is A post ahead of time for my aunt Kelly...(MY #1 BLOG FAN)
it will be her...um...29th? birthday this saturday!

lOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!

Kennedy


Kennedy
Posted by: pattichiles.
ON JUNE 21ST, MY LITTLE NIECE KENNEDY TURNED 1!

happy birthday sweetiepie! we love you and miss you!

xoxoxoxo

Olivia & David


It was great to finally meet you sweetheart!!!

19.6.05

Uncle Davy and Vasco


Happy Fathers Day Robb!

Baby Oliva!


Uncle Davy and Auntie Patti had a great visit with Olivia in Ottawa!

15.6.05

Matthew & Mary


Congrats!!!

Patti & David in Ottawa


HOT HOT HOT!

3.6.05

cupcake girl

"SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE A MAGAZINE AD!"
YES. WORK IS SWOONING OVER MY GIRLY LOOK TODAY.
SOMETHING ABOUT A GIRL IN A HOT PINK BORDER-PRINT SKIRT TURNS HEADS RIGHT UPSIDE-DOWN.
I PRANCED AROUND AND ATE MAPLE COFFEE CAKE THIS MORNING TOO. WITH A SILVER FORK.
BLACK HEPBURN SUEDE BALLERINA FLATS CALL FOR THIS SORT-OF-TIFFANY'S-BEHAVIOUR.
THE CANVAS BAG I BOUGHT FOR MY TRIP TO MEXICO ISNT BIG ENOUGH TO CARRY COMFORTABLY OVER MY SHOULDER, SO I HAD TO CARRY IT ON MY ARM, SO REALLY I MADE QUITE THE SPECTACLE ON THE ROCKET TODAY. I LOOKED BITTERSWEET, OR A LIKE A SYRUPY SUGARPLUM.

SPEAKING OF OVERDUING IT HERE IN TORONTO, I HAVE JUST LEARNED THAT U2 HAS 4 SOLD OUT SHOWS AT AC CENTRE, HOW MUCH CASH IS THAT FOR ONE BAND AT $60/HEAD.
EXCLUDING MERCHANDISE SALES, AND BEER SALES. WHY NOT JUST PLAY AT THE ROGERS CENTRE?
NOW I DONT LIKE THEM. I ACTUALLY NEVER HAD A THING FOR THEM ESPECIALLY. MY IRISH FRIEND ONCE TOLD ME THAT HE COULDN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH U2 WAS PLAYED IN CANADA. HE THEN MOCKED CANADIANS FOR BEING SUCH IRISH WANNABE POSERS.
FOR ME, TODAY THEY'RE RIGHT UP THERE WITH CELINE DION.
AND SHE HAS PERFUME NOW. WELL THEY DO HAVE A U2 IPOD.

DO YOU HAVE ONE YET?

MUSCIANS ARE GREEDY. I GET UPSET ABOUT BEING IN FASHION AS ALL OF THE REALLY TALENTED PEOPLE I KNOW ARE FAILURES BECAUSE THEIR LASTNAMES AREN'T DIDDY, LOHAN, LOPEZ, KNOWLES AND OR SIMMONS.
ARE PEOPLE IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY OUT TO TRAMPLE THE FASHION LIVELIHOODS OF TRUE BLOODED FASHIONISTA'S?
ALL IN THE SAME MASS-APPEAL-SELL-OUT-POOL.

IF BONO WAS INDEED HIP, AND OR IN TO THE WHOLE EARTH THING AS HE SAYS, HE WOULD PLAY FREE SHOWS OR FOR-CHARITY-ONLY GIGS.
THE FUNNIEST THING I ALWAYS SEE IS WHEN STARS GIVE AROUND .25 CENTS PER TICKET OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT JUST TO SAY THAT THEY ARE SOCIALLY AWARE. AT LEAST MATT GOOD WWW.MATTHEGOOD.NET HAS AMNESTY TABLES AT HIS SHOWS. BUT HIS WIFE IS A FUNNY BMW DRIVING FASHION DIVA CATASTROPHE.

LIFE IS LIKE THAT.

26.5.05

The Guinness H.S.C. LLB take on legal ethics


If you've been hurt or injured in an automobile accident...
I get paid in IAMS.

take me out to the ball game with a foam finger


This is yours truly at the Toronto Blue Jays' home game opener with a giant FOAM finger! Yes entirely foam, beer and hotdogs.
"The essentials"
The trailer park boys threw in the first pitch
and SLASH played the national anthem.

It doesnt get any better or stranger here in Toronto now does it?

JUSTINE AND JASON


PARTY ANIMALS AT THE WEDDING...!

25.5.05

Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels...

This is crazy.

Glorification of often-fatal eating disorder is flourishing, researchers find
(HealthDay News)
-A visit to a typical "pro-ana" Web site - an online forum for anorexics - tells a disturbing story. Photos of rake-thin women are everywhere; a shot of one emaciated model, her bones protruding, is emblazoned "Feel Sexy, Join (the) ProAna Movement."
In the site's chat forum, one correspondent says, "i hate myself im so big and i have to loss (sic) 20 lbs by june 3th."

Another correspondent repeats the pro-anorexia catchphrase:

"Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels."

"Pro-ana" forums like these are sprouting throughout the Web, and a new study finds that teens with an eating disorder who visit these sites fare far worse than other young anorexics or bulimics.

According to researchers at Stanford University and Lucile Packard Children's Hospital (LPCH) in Palo Alto, Calif., 40 percent of patients interviewed had visited such sites. Teens with an eating disorder who frequent these sites were hospitalized three times more than nonusers, the researchers said.

And the study, presented at this week's meeting of the Pediatric Academic Societies in Washington, D.C., found that nearly two-thirds (61 percent) of visitors to pro-eating-disorder sites used new weight loss or purging techniques they learned about through the sites.
These online forums "seem to give teens an outlet to express their private eating-disorder thoughts in an anonymous forum," said study co-author Dr. Rebecka Peebles, adolescent medicine specialist at LPCH. With provocative words and images, the sites' warnings about entering give them a "forbidden fruit" ambience that can actually appeal to teens, Peebles said.

Pro-eating-disorder Web sites have proliferated on the Internet, luring vulnerable teens into viewing anorexia or bulimia as a "lifestyle choice" rather than an illness. In fact, these sites now outnumber pro-recovery sites five to one, experts point out. By 2003 - the last time experts attempted a precise count - over 500 "pro-ana" sites existed on the Internet, Peebles said.
Besides offering confused young girls "support" in staying away from food, the Web sites provide girls and women with new methods of hiding their eating disorder behaviors, cheating on weigh-ins at the doctor's office, and providing what the sites call

"thinspiration"

- glamour shots of thin women and celebrities, and specially designed goal-weight charts.

Some sites even include a special food pyramid, with food placed at the narrow tip to be used sparingly while the bulk of the structure promotes large rations of water, diet soda, black coffee and cigarettes.

Many also sell merchandise such as "Mia" (code for Bulimia) and "Ana" (code for anorexia) jewelry, t-shirts and other products. These products help fund the Web sites.
"Especially for teens in recovery, they have so many people pushing against their eating disorder, such as doctors and parents, that these sites support that part of their brain that says 'yes' to the eating disorder," said Dr. Martin Fisher, chief of the division of adolescent medicine at Schneider Children's Hospital in Manhasset, N.Y.

The fear is that for those with an undiagnosed and untreated eating disorder, this sense of community with other victims could spur the disease on, encouraging destructive weight loss behavior and thoughts. "It's also one way of slowing recovery for those receiving treatment," Fisher said.

Another concern among experts hoping to curb anorexia and bulimia is that these Web sites might trigger new cases in vulnerable - but as-yet unaffected - teens, said Peebles.
Signs that teens are visiting pro-eating-disorder sites may include rapidly losing weight, being familiar with terms like Mia and Ana, wearing solidarity jewelry - most commonly represented by thin strands of red or blue beads - and/or spending lots of time on the Web.

Parents can't monitor all teen Web activity, of course. And study co-author Jenny Wilson, a Stanford medical student, said the tricky thing is that many pro-eating-disorder Web site users also frequent pro-recovery sites. Even these sites sometimes exacerbate risky behavior, since they allow visitors to confide in one another on topics such as weight-loss strategies.
Dialogue between an affected teen and her parents is key, the researchers said.

Concerned parents can direct their child to sites with constructive support in beating anorexia or bulimia, Peebles said. She believes some of the best sites include

www.somethingfishy.org
or
www.renfrew.org.

Wilson said that, right now, "there's a need to fill that technological gap" when it comes to constructive Web sites that "meet the demands of surfing teens." "Cool" sites with good information are in short order, she said, but they could be helpful in enticing teens to learn about more healthy behaviors.
"It's difficult to treat eating disorders, with or without the Web sites," said Fisher. "They just add one more variable, and it's quite dismaying."

Copyright 2005 ScoutNews, LLC. All rights reserved.

13.5.05

super socco is the drink of choice for all your hard days of playin the field mofo

I remember Super Socco Drinks.
They had RAD commercials in 1984.
Lots of poppy black and white soccer balls and punchy
red and green flags and scoring and all kinds of good fun like that.
Every other drinkbox is just plain weak in comparison.
Ok there is one that beats all in my books of 'drink-boxes'
they were chocolate SHAKES, you shook it and shook it until it got all frothy.
Mmmm frothy warm (by the time lunch hits) chocolate milk/SHAKE for lunch....
Super star kids.

Ok, so what, by todays standards, they werent all that good UM sure of it.
Sorry the whole SOCCO lept into my waterlogged brain whilst swimming
and really, it actually makes me think of the taste of soy milk.
I dont know whats the deal with people drinking cows milk anyway.

Are you a cow?

Why not give a calf breast milk?
Or maybe they do on planet MOO.

www.milksucks.com

Enjoy the cream of your day...its bedtime in T-dot land.

12.5.05

my skinny lil ass in a skinny lil speedo

Ok for the most part, I have become a swimmer again.
Sadly, Karate is only once a week Saturday, here in Toronto.
So what is a ninja like me to do during the week?
I race home from work to eat toast with P&Jam,
seriously, its a real fuel magician of sorts.
It goes better with Peach yogurt, but we ran out.
and then I usually call my brother to see what he is up to.
His life is a circus lately. At least he isnt a Carnie...although he does have a knack for
dealing with all of those rollercoaster rides in his life. I love him and wish him well.
For his pain I will swim laps to clear my mind.

Generally, I have to wait around the house until 8:30 free lane swim time.
I walk about 3minutes up and over from my house and voila! a pool shows up behind the bushes. There it is! the pool!
Ok so what if it is a REC pool. It totally is great for me and is always available until 10pm in the night. For $2.50 I can swim for an hour.

Beat that.

I am now devouring the "medium" pace lane and should really be in the
"fast" lane but then I would really have to "work-it".
So I got a new TYR suit last week as it really SUITS me fine. And looks hot on my leaner-because-of-swimming-and-going-1/2-vegetarian-frame.
Yes 1/2 as I do have to get a little more meat inside me lately as I am feeling dizzy.
And I am angry at PETA for being slow with my parcel!

I got into the pool tonight, the clear blue embraced me.
It was another strange day in the sea of Toronto.
Matt Good said that in a sea of people one can still feel utterly alone.
I believe this.

I have been going to the pool 3x a week and doing push-ups on my thumbs at Karate Saturdays.
I do have Mexico to look forward to in June, so all I really need is a tan for my bikini. I look pretty much fine as can be. Dave also needs a tan as golfing on Sunday gave him a "glorious"
bronzage de farmer.

Now that I am in more contact with my friend Justine I hope she takes me to her boyfriend Jason's Ranch. He is North American Champ...at the good ole R-o-d-e-o!
I hope they can teach me a thing or two about horses. I hope David comes with me.
He is fearful of big dogs, so I hope that the big horses dont have the same impact.

So about the pool, there is a slow, medium and fast lane.
The fast lane is for triatheletes and superstars. the medium lane is for post-swimmers and or retired swimmers. I havent swam against anyone in over (shock) 14 years.
And the slow lane is for people that just need to get into the clear blue water and clear their blue collar heads.


Did I tell you that we live in the village of Swansea?
Apparently this area is pretty historic. But I will leave that for another night.


One last thing, I got a flat-iron on the weekend and tonight I attacked the mane-from-hell.
And seriously, my hair is SO thick i will have to sleep on it STILL to get it truly stick straight.

I may sneak a swim in tomorrow...

SLOW DANCE

Thank you Jessica for the eye-opening poem/e-mail written by a little girl in NYC.

SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask
How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Because you never had time
To call and say,"Hi"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.

3.5.05

WILD GUESTS


YAH YOU KNOW WHO THIS IS....

congrats!!!


We are all SO happy for you darling!!!!

STEPHANIE AND BENEDICT


APRIL 30TH 2005